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Clarity Starts Here

Is your marriage surviving, or just existing?


Whether you’re navigating a recent crisis, (such as a loss of a parent or a betrayal of trust), or simply feeling like the connection has been lost and you are living with a roommate. Questioning the future of your relationship is a heavy burden to carry alone. It often feels even more complicated when you’re already managing the transitions of perimenopause and an impending empty nest. You don't have to stay stuck in this uncertainty. I help women cut through the confusion of midlife to find clarity—helping you decide if your relationship can be restored or if it’s time to focus on your own happiness and a new direction.


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Change

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Finding balance and healing in your life and relationships can feel overwhelming, but you don’t have to do it alone. I'm Blakely Patterson LMFT, and I specialize in guiding individuals and couples through life’s most challenging moments, helping you create meaningful change and move toward a life of greater connection, clarity, and peace.

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Are you feeling...

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In my practice, you’ll find a safe, non-judgmental, and confidential environment where we can tackle sensitive issues with honesty and empathy. I focus on developing personalized plans to improve various aspects of life and relationships, whether it’s resolving conflict, enhancing communication, or adjusting to life transitions such as divorce or parenting stress.

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  • Overwhelmed by conflict in your marriage and unsure how to move forward?

    If you’re struggling to communicate, resolve disagreements, or feel close to your partner, you’re not alone. I can help by providing practical tools and a safe space to rebuild trust and connection.

  • Torn about whether to stay in your marriage or pursue divorce?

    For couples facing this crossroads, I offer guidance to navigate the uncertainty. Together, we will explore your options and create a pathway to clarity and confidence.

  • Lost and struggling with the emotions of a divorce?

    Whether it’s the stress of co-parenting, adjusting to a new chapter, or managing grief and anger, I can help you find healing and strength to move forward.

  • Alone in your struggles, without a space to feel heard and understood?

    Therapy offers you a judgment-free environment to share your story, process your emotions, and discover actionable steps toward a more fulfilling future.

Who I Help

my specialities include...

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Couples Rebuilding Trust

If your relationship has been shaken by betrayal and/or infidelity, there is hope for healing. I help couples navigate the painful journey of rebuilding trust, enhancing communication, and rediscovering intimacy. Together, we will create a safe space for honest conversations and equip you with tools to rebuild your foundation and foster deeper connection.

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Mixed Agenda Couples

Deciding whether to stay in a marriage or move toward divorce is one of the hardest decisions you may face. For couples who feel stuck, with one partner unsure and the other desperate to save the relationship, I provide structured guidance to help you gain clarity. Through thoughtful exploration, I help couples uncover their next steps and support you both, no matter the outcome.

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Divorce Adjustment

Divorce can be an emotional whirlwind, but it doesn’t have to define your future. I work with individuals to process the complexities of separation, navigate co-parenting challenges, and rebuild a sense of identity and purpose. Whether you’re in the midst of divorce or working toward healing post-divorce, I’m here to help you find stability and strength.

Hi, I'm Blakely

My heart is firmly rooted in supporting women who find themselves at a sudden crossroads in the middle of their lives. I am most passionate about walking alongside women who are bravely peeling back the layers of who they were told to be to discover who they actually are. I deeply identify with the courage it takes to stand in the wreckage of what you thought was your 'forever' and decide that the second half of your life will be defined by truth rather than habit. I know the weight of the 'what if' and the fear of the unknown, but I also know the incredible power that comes from choosing to live authentically. My mission is to help you navigate this transition with grace, ensuring that your next chapter isn't just a survival story, but a masterpiece of your own making.

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as we shift internally, the external world will respond.

What To Expect

virtual and in-person appointments available

When you book a session, I want you to feel calm, safe, and seen. Therapy with me is a judgment-free space where you can openly share your story and be met with empathy and understanding. Together, we will create a plan that aligns with your goals and values, so you leave each session feeling supported and empowered.


I offer both virtual and in-person sessions to accommodate your needs. While I do not accept insurance, I provide invoices that you can submit to your insurance provider for potential reimbursement. Rates are $150 a session for individuals and couples. 

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Your present circumstances don’t determine where you can go; they merely determine where you start.


– Nido Qubein

Start Your Journey

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Taking the first step toward change can be difficult, but it’s also incredibly brave. Whether you’re working to rebuild a relationship, make a life-changing decision, or heal from the pain of divorce, I’m here to help.

Book a consultation today and take the next step toward a brighter future.


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